You ask everybody you know: How long does it usually take to get over it? There are many formulas. One year for every year you dated. Two years for every year you dated. It’s just a matter of willpower: The day you decide it’s over, it’s over. You never get over it. Junot Diaz, This Is How You Lost Her
Be the person you are looking for; be kind, loving, passionate, compassionate, understanding, generous, pure, faithful, committed, hardworking, respectful, honest, loyal, and adventurous. The person you are looking for will find you and you will find them because your energies will attract you to each other like magnets. NothingIsTruer-ThanDeath
• love yourself • have a fresh start • go back to school • recover • make new friends • fall in love • go to therapy • learn a skill • discover your passion • repair relationships • change the world • find a new hobby • be happy
It isn’t too late for you. you’ll be okay. There’s no time limit on happiness.
How you program your mind when you’re at a low point is so impactful. Resorting back to toxic patterns when you’re low is only strengthening those neural pathways and programming your mind to make those unhealthy choices or think those unhealthy thoughts every time you’re not feeling well. Alternatively, trying your hardest to cope in a healthier way every time you’re feeling bad will strengthen those positive neural pathways, and as time goes on, it will become easier to make healthy choices and say no to toxic patterns. This, of course, isn’t to say that you should feel guilty if you relapse; it is not by any means easy to reprogram your brain and sometimes we relapse and that’s okay, so long as we’re trying our best to treat ourselves better. Lune Loving